Dementia care, in plain language

For the one who handles everything.

Plain-language dementia help from a physician who makes house calls — what to watch for, what to ask, and what to say at the next appointment. No jargon, no fear-mongering.

Start free with the one-pager caregivers keep on the fridge: When to Call the Doctor vs When to Go — the calm traffic-light guide for the worrying moments. Plus short, practical letters.

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The Care Binder

Everything the care team needs to know — in one place, in your hands.

A practical, fill-in binder for families caring for someone living with dementia. The family member with a binder changes the appointment: care gets better, visits get shorter, fewer things fall through the cracks.

  • Our Team — every name and number you need on one page
  • Medications — a master list plus the eight questions to ask at every review
  • When to Call, When to Go — a traffic-light guide for worrying moments
  • The Hospital Transfer Sheet — the one page you hand the emergency team
  • Behaviour & Symptom Logs — including the one-week behaviour tracker clinics use
  • Goals of Care — a gentle, values-first guide to the conversation that matters most
  • Legal & Planning Checklists — separate pages for Canada and the United States
  • Your Own Oxygen Mask — a section that is only about you
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Care Binder cover Traffic-light guide page Two-week behaviour tracker page

The Dementia Stages Series

A guide for every stage of the road

Three physician-written guides — plain language, large readable type, built to be read in the moment. Buy the stage you're in today, or get the set and have the next one on the shelf before you need it.

Early stage The Early-Stage Guide

What to do after the diagnosis — the paperwork that's really about love, the driving conversation, home safety, and planning while you can still plan together.

Get the Early Guide — CA$29

8 pages · instant PDF download
Middle stage The Middle-Stage Survival Guide

The daily battles, one clear page each — sundowning, bathing, aggression, wandering — built to be read at the bathroom door, at 5 p.m., in the moment.

Get the Middle Guide — CA$39

21 pages · instant PDF download
Late stage The Late-Stage Guide

Memory care, comfort care, and the final months — gentle, permission-giving guidance for the decisions nobody prepares you for.

Get the Late Guide — CA$39

8 pages · instant PDF download

The complete series — Early · Middle · Late

All three guides for CA$59.99 — save over 40% vs buying separately. One calm voice for the whole road.

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The letters

Start here — the questions caregivers ask first

Short, practical letters written from the hallway, not the lecture hall. Free to read, no sign-up needed.

The worrying momentsWhen to call the doctor — and when to go

A calm traffic-light way to think about the moments that frighten you: green, amber, red.

The tableWhen they stop eating

Why weight falls and food gets refused, what fixes it — and the honest answer on feeding tubes.

The one that changes everythingWhy people with dementia fall

Dementia doubles the risk. The causes nobody checks — medications, blood pressure, vitamin D — and what to do in the hour after.

What to expectThe stages of dementia, in plain language

Mild, moderate and severe — what actually changes, and what to prepare in each one.

What to sayWhat to say when they ask the same question again

Why the facts don’t help, what does — and what to do when they ask for someone who has died.

The hard hoursSundowning: why evenings are harder

Why the wheels come off at 4:30, what genuinely helps, and when it isn’t sundowning at all.

The hard conversationsDementia and driving: how to have the conversation

The warning signs that matter, how physician reporting works in Canada, and how to avoid a war.

The hard conversationsIs it time for long-term care?

The safety questions, the caregiver questions, and the promise that makes this so hard.

Early daysIs it dementia, or just normal aging?

The five differences we look for on house calls — and what to do with a “maybe.”

The worst nightThe one page you hand the paramedics

The transfer sheet that changes the worst night of the year, and where it should live.

For youThe sentence that starts more help than you’d expect

Eight words to say at your own doctor’s appointment — and why they open doors nothing else does.

Who this comes from

Written from the hallway, not the lecture hall

The Dementia House Call is created by a Canadian physician who makes dementia house calls — in care homes and living rooms, with the families doing the real work. These tools are the ones we reach for in practice, translated into plain language for the kitchen table.